Watering my seedlings made me think about the process of divorce and separation. I know for me, as I recognize in many of my clients, I could not comprehend any positives of the situation when I was going through it. But there are some great benefits. It is a chance at a new beginning and a time to create a life that works better for you and your family. Life is not static and being able to nurture yourself during this time and plant the seeds of a new future is, in a sense, a rebirth. Difficult times do not have to be negative as much as it feels that way. As I tell my clients “I promise we will get through this and I am here to help you and it will be better.”